We call it by different terms - such as griping, grumbling, whining or just plain complaining. In the Bible, the common term used was "murmuring." But regardless of how we term it, complaining always has the same symptoms. The dictionary defines it as "an expression of unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or discontent." Complaining is the outward expression of discontent from within.
We all complain every now and then, don't we? But some of us complain a little more than others. Some even complain all the time. One thing is for sure. People who believe in creating their own life don't complain as much as those who merely think "life happens to me". In fact, complaining is almost the single giveaway clue as to which category you belong to.
It's almost too common to hear people complain about their teacher, their up-line or their down-line (if they are in the MLM business), their stockbroker, their colleagues, their bosses and believe it or not, even their parents. This is a common one I hear all the time, "My dad has a really horrendous temper, so I guess I got a little bit of that from him!". Big time losers go a little further, they blame their grandparents and ancestors, "Oh, our family line have always been not very well-off, so I guess I'm never going to be rich!". Anthony Robbins puts it in a much better perspective; The past does not equal the present!
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